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10 Reasons Women Aren't Enjoying Sex

10 Reasons Women Aren't Enjoying Sex

10 Reasons Women Aren't Enjoying Sex

It's 2019, and women should be enjoying sex. However it goes without saying that a lot of women aren't enjoying sex as much as they should be - but it's time to change that! There are numerous reasons you might not be enjoying sex, so let's take a few of the most common reasons and discuss how to combat them so you can go back to mind-blowing orgasms.

Stress

The number one reason you may be struggling to fully "let go" and enjoy yourself is due to stress. Stress can place a lot of pressure on you, and prevent you from fully enjoying yourself or reaching orgasm. Chronic stress often causes your body to produce too much cortisol, which is known to lower your libido.

Stress can affect us physically and mentally, and both of these things can make sex less enjoyable: so how can you fix stress?

Many doctors recommend having a healthy outlet for when you are stressed. Exercise, such as yoga, can be beneficial. Otherwise, reading, watching a relaxing TV show, or having a bath can all help lower stress levels.

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Being intimate and close with your partner is also a great stress reliever, as are massages. So why not kick off your night with a relaxing sensual massage? A massage candle such as one from the Plaisir’s Secrets range is a perfect option.

Note: if you're unable to combat stress on your own, it's a great idea to reach out to a doctor or professional for further help.

Communication

Everyone is different, which means it can be hard for your partner to know exactly what will work for you! They might be trying their hardest and playing all of their go-to cards and it's just not working. Communication is the most important thing in any sexual relationship, whether you're friends with benefits, partners, or acquaintances.

There's no reason not to ask for what you want! In fact, good folks of all genders will find this extremely sexy. Tell them what feels good and guide their hands/head/body towards your favourite spots - take the lead!

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You're confused

If you don't know what you want yourself, how can you expect someone else to? Knowing your own body is a crucial component to great sex.

This could be the perfect wake-up call for you to close the curtains, lock the door, and do a little bit of self-exploration!

Struggling to orgasm

Both of these ideas link into the next reason you might not be enjoying sex: you can't reach orgasm. Once you know what gets you all the way, communicate with your partner, or show them what works.

Women usually require a lot more foreplay than men, so try take things slow at the beginning and play with each other before jumping straight into intercourse. This will help you (hopefully!) reach orgasm more often, but don't stress! It may take a while to figure out each other's rhythms, but as long as you're having fun, that's all that matters.

Pain

If you're experiencing pain during sex, then it's needless to say that you likely won't be enjoying yourself very much. You could be experiencing pain for a number of reasons, but a common reason some women experience pain is due to lack of lubrication. While most vaginas provide at least some natural lubrication, some don't produce much, or produce none at all. Typically this is totally normal! You may just need a helping hand to avoid potential pain.

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Self-conscious

We can all remember a time when they felt self-conscious, whether in bed or not. Being with someone intimately involves a lot of trust and emotion, and no one is 100% confident 100% of the time. Feeling self-conscious can definitely affect your pleasure during sex.

To avoid these negative feelings, only sleep with people you feel comfortable with. Wear something sexy that makes you feel good and confident, and try to live in the moment instead of over-analysing the situation. Enjoy yourself!

Low Drive

You might be feeling pressure to have sex than you want to. Some people simply have lower sex drives, and that's totally okay! You should never let your partner, or anyone, pressure you into doing something you don't want to do, as it's likely not going to be very enjoyable.

Have an honest conversation with your partner about how you're feeling, to make sure you're both on the same page.

Bad Feelings

Despite how the movies portray it, most of the time 'make-up sex' isn't all that it's cracked up to be. If you've just had an argument and are feeling annoyed or angry towards your partner, you likely won't enjoy the sex. Sex is every part a mental thing as it is physical. If you only have bad thoughts and feelings running through your mind, it will show.

Unless angry, hateful sex is your jam, take a breather away from the bedroom, resolve your conflict, and then get back to it!

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Routine

Lastly, you might not be enjoying sex because it's the same every day: same time, same positions, and same place. Routine can be easy to slip into, especially if you lead a busy life, but it's important not to let that overrule your sex life and take the fun out of it.

To combat this issue, trying having sex in the morning if you usually get it on at night, or vice versa. Something as simple as switching up the timing can make a world of difference! Or try some new positions for a change.

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