Let's face it, vibrators are great. Amazing, even. What could get much better than putting all of the pleasure and control in your hands?! Vibes are the perfect way to spice up your sex life, whether solo or coupled up, and can help bring a variety of new sensations and fun to your life.
However, there is such a thing as getting too comfortable with your vibrator. Using the same positions and placements of your vibe might start to get a little... ho hum. Maybe your new toy isn't doing it for you like it used to. Or it is, but you're looking to make things a little more exciting and different.
There's no shame in wanting to switch things up and try something new in the bedroom! In fact, it can be super empowering and confidence-boosting to take charge and make a chance, even if it's just you and your fav sex toy in the equation.
For the purpose of these tips, we're going to assume you have a standard vibrator - nothing too fancy or spectacular, just a good ole reliable vibe! If you don't have any sex toys as of yet, then don't worry. There's no need to break the bank or go out and purchase the most expensive thing on the market (especially with these hot tips we're about to spill). Here are some great affordable options if you're just starting out...
The Neon Luv Touch G-Spot vibrator is a powerful vibrator with multiple speeds and silky smooth Luv Touch coating to ensure a sensational experience.
Or if you're looking for something with a bit more texture, the Classic Clit Stimulator is a bit of a show-off with textured ribs and veins for extra pleasure, plus a clitoral stimulator!
Or go back to the basics with the simple yet elegant Amore Vibe. It might look simple, but this vibe boasts 3 speeds and 7 vibration patterns - pretty much all you need for some mind-boggling fun!
Just a little more admin and then you'll be all good to go on your new vibrator adventure. You'll want to use plenty of lubricant with your new toy. Trust me, it's a hundred times better for everyone involved!
You'll want to use something water-based, as these lubes are compatible with all sex toys and won't break down the materials of your new BFF.
Who said vibrators are just for the vagina?
If you didn't know, the human body has plenty of erogenous areas, and a vibrator is the perfect way to find out what gets you going. If you want a way to make your sexual explorations last a little bit longer, this is great to get you in the mood and enjoy a bit of foreplay.
Why not run your vibrator gently over your nipples? Start out on a lower setting to avoid over-stimulation, and slowly graze your skin with the tip of your vibe. You'll quickly get the hang of it and find what gets you ticking, but it's a good idea to start out slow and steady in case something doesn't quite feel right.
Remember, if you experience any pain or discomfort, stop right away!
Typically, the bed is where most sex acts go down. But you don't have to confine yourself to the space of your bedroom!
Sometimes, all your sex life needs is a change in scenery. This can allow for a range of new possibilities with your vibrator! Why not position your vibe between some pillows on the couch (just make sure everything's clean!) for a totally new angle?! Or perch yourself on a hard surface, like a dining table or kitchen bench, and take things from there. Just remember to thoroughly clean any surfaces that you touch afterwards!
Or, if your vibe is waterproof, it's time to get steamy in the shower! The added element of hot water in the shower can create a super erotic environment. Be careful, though, as showers can get pretty slippery!
If you've got a partner to help you out, using a vibrator alongside another sexual act (like oral sex or penetrative sex) can take your sexual relationship to a whole new level. It's as easy as incorporating a vibrator into your usual routine or positions! It might feel a bit awkward at first, but once the pleasure starts to kick in, you'll be thanking me...
If you're indulging in some solo play, don't worry! You can still experience some thrilling double pleasure sensations. Stimulate the clitoris with your hands while using the vibrator against your nipples, or vice versa, or insert the vagina while giving the clit a bit of extra love. There are so many different variations you can play around with, so it's totally up to you!
If you didn't already know, edging is the practice of bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm, but not letting yourself actually orgasm. You do this a few times until you finally go all the way, and it helps you experience a super intense and powerful orgasm! Sounds pretty good, right? But maybe you're not entirely convinced yet. I mean, why deny yourself of an orgasm?
Aside from experiencing way better orgasms, there are a few other benefits of edging. It can help make sex longer, and give you better control of your orgasms in the long run, which is great for you and your partner!
Using your vibrator to practice edging can feel pretty empowering and is a great way to make things a little more exciting. Start out with short denial periods and see how you go!
Hey, sometimes even the best things in life don't last forever. Maybe it's just time you bite the bullet and purchase a new vibrator! Maybe something a little more advanced with a few new features?
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