There are many misconceptions and myths when it comes to sex. A lot of these stem from centuries ago, like when it was believed that women didn't experience sexual pleasure, and when people actually believed that masturbation was bad for you. Luckily, we have become much more educated and knowledgeable over the years, with specialists and experts helping to break stereotypes and set some of the myths straight!
Something that is still commonly believed, however, is that penetrative sex can make a vagina loose. A lot of people believe that sex can make a vagina lose its elasticity entirely, causing it to become loose forever. But we're here to set the record straight!
The short answer is, no, a vagina can not become loose from penetrative sex. Vagina's can change over time due to age and childbirth, however a vagina will never lose its stretch entirely.
Vagina's are elastic, which means that they can stretch to accommodate penetration, as well as childbirth, and snap back into place afterwards. The only exception to this, is for younger women who have given birth multiple times, and older women. The vaginal muscles can fatigue over time, meaning that they don't fully contract anymore. But penetrative sex? Yeah, that won't have much of a last effect on the vagina's elasticity at all!
Over the years, the myth of having a 'loose' vagina has typically been used as an insult and a way to shame women for how many sexual partners they have had. However we now know that this is a completely untrue and baseless insult!
Despite popular belief, a tight vagina isn't actually always a good thing. It can sometimes be cause for concern, so it's important to be in tune with your body to understand whether something might be wrong.
Typically, the vaginal muscles will relax when you are sexually aroused. If you aren't aroused, or interested in sex, then the vagina won't relax or stretch easily at all. This can make penetrative sex painful and uncomfortable, and is also why many people's first times can be a bad experience. It's because they aren't actually aroused enough for penetration! To help solve this, engage in a little more foreplay to get the body ready for penetration. You can also try using some lubricant to help everything slide in easier! Plus, the wetter the better.
Further, extreme vaginal tightness might be a sign of vaginismus. This is relatively common in women, and can be treated - so if you're experiencing a lot of discomfort and pain during sex, despite doing your best to warm up, then it may be worth a visit to your doctor.
Kegel exercises can help work the pelvic floor muscles, providing more control during sex and helping strengthen the muscles overall. Therefore, Kegel exercises can help make the vagina a lot stronger, which in turn can mean they feel tighter as well. This is because it helps the vagina relax and contract much easier, and more intensely - which can be super pleasurable for everyone involved!
While you can do Kegels without any equipment, kegel balls can also help ensure you are targeting the correct muscles! Just use a little lubricant to insert them, and hold them in for around 10 minutes as you go about your day. Your muscles will automatically clench to hold them in place, and as you feel more comfortable, you can wear them for longer and use heavier balls to continue strengthening the muscles!
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